Nowadays, sex toys are virtually all around us. You can find stores selling them even in the most important streets of the world. Online there are many options to consider like the highly complex Cirillas Adult Sex Toy Website and the variety that you find online is what draws in many to internet purchases.
The problem appears when looking at relationships, especially long term ones. In most situations we see couples that simply do not want to use them. That is mainly because of not understanding how useful they can be. For instance, many women complain that they no longer turn on her man. Sex toys may actually be a solution for something unwanted like this.
Everything should start with understanding the regular benefits we know about when single people use the sex toys. Besides the obvious good feeling gained, we can also mention:
- The person reaches orgasm much faster so endorphins will be released in the body.
- Using sex toys will make you burn more calories. We normally think that this is not the case but the truth is that using these toys normally makes people play for longer periods of time. This leads to more calories being burned.
- Easier to deal with emotional or physical pain because of the released endorphins.
When looking at relationships, all these advantages also appear. However, there are also others that have to be mentioned.
A huge benefit of using sex toys while in a relationship is the fact that it eliminates the routine that normally appears. For so many couples we see that sex becomes more of a chore than something that is enjoyed. Having sex is no longer enjoyable. Since sex is not enjoyable and you do not really want to hurt the feelings of the partner, sex still happens. As this practice continues, frustration grows. Sex toys help to bring in something unique. Inhibitions can be lost and experimenting while in bed becomes a reality again for the happy couple.
There is also the case in which besides becoming more adventurous, there is an addition of something that feels like a third party. That is something that couples may want to experience so the practice is great to get the idea started.
It is quite easy to see that using the sex toys while in a relationship is something that should actually be taken into account. In most situations using the toys is something that you want to take into account because it makes sex more enjoyable. This is true even for those that are skeptic at first. Keep in mind that this does not mean you can introduce the sex toys whenever you want to. It is really important that you discuss something like this with the partner. Without the conversation agreeing to this addition to the sex life of the couple is something that will be seen in a negative light. Think about this and you will definitely be able to spice up your sex life, which is what you want to do.
Our Changing Attitudes to Sex
As we’ve grown more comfortable using sex toys, many more unusual toys have been introduced to the market.
It’s no secret that we’re a nation who love sex toys. They’ve become part of many people’s sex life and play a part in both foreplay and the main event. So it’s only natural that sex toys themselves have been changing during recent years. We’ve come a long way from basic vibrators – now there’s a toy for almost anything. With toys having all kinds of bells and whistles and coming in all sorts of shapes and sizes, there’s never been a better time to add to your collection.
Where it began
Even ten years ago, we were far less open about using sex toys than we are now. Shows like Sex and the City (remember Charlotte and her Rabbit?!) changed people’s ideas about sex, and taught them that it didn’t need to be banished to the bedroom – it could be part of a bigger conversation. So as couples and singletons alike became more comfortable using toys, the choice on offer grew. However, SATC wasn’t the biggest sexual cultural awakening. No, that one came a little bit later on…
The Fifty Shades effect
There’s no denying that Fifty Shades of Grey totally changed our attitude to sex toys. Suddenly, we weren’t just thinking about using a vibrator for foreplay and leaving it there. No, that wasn’t enough! As we read all about Anastasia and Christian’s exploits in the bedroom, it became clear that the more toys the better! Nipple clamps, Ben Wa balls and even butt plugs were on the shopping lists of women all over the world. They were keen to try out everything that they’d read about in the book with their own partners – and boy, did they! We were all having more sex than ever, and this time, the toys weren’t just a supporting act. They were part of the main show.
We’ve become more adventurous
So how has this influenced the rise of unusual sex toys? Well, we’ve become a lot braver when it comes to buying toys. Thanks to having our eyes opened by books and television, we’re much more open to trying something new. Considering that most people own sex toys, that means taking things up a level and trying something a little more unorthodox. Also, more women are blogging sex toy reviews, which means everybody else can make a more informed decision before buying – a sexy toy is obviously not something that can be returned if you change your mind!
The development of these toys
Most unusual sex toys have developed from something far tamer. For example, most vibrators take inspiration from the Rabbit – think dual clitoral and vaginal stimulation. Now though, they’re hands free, waterproof and decked out with ridges and spines to increase sensation even further. There are even some clitoral vibrators out there that can be worn over your underwear. So you don’t even need to get your clothes off to get your rocks off! Add to the mix anal toys and cock rings, and there’s no part of our bodies that can’t be pleasured.
What will you buy next?
So have you eschewed your bullet for something a little more advanced? If you have, you’re certainly in good company. More and more of us are adding something weird and wonderful to our sex toy collections. If you’re tempted to do so, then there’s plenty of choice out there. Just think about what you’d like a toy to do for you and you’ll be sure to find something that’s a little out-there to scratch that itch.
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When you were younger you used toys to transform you into a world of imagination and make believe. You spent hours playing with dolls or action figures pretending to be Barbie or GI Joe. As you grew older toys lost their wanderlust and adulthood took over. That is until now! Here are 16 ways that sex toys will enhance your sex life!
- A couple that plays together stays together! Introducing sex toys to the bedroom will add some serious spice to your dull “only waiting until the weekend” sex routine. Swings aren’t just for playgrounds!
- How about a little mutual masturbation? Add a little vibrating c-ring and clitoral vibrator (i.e. bullet) to your genital massages and watch some serious fireworks occur.
- Studies have shown that women in relationships use sex toys more often than single women? Why is that? If you don’t use it you’ll lose it. Sexual desire that is. Work those erotic muscles single ladies. Don’t wait for Prince Charming to get you off!
- You can go from 0 to 60 in 2.5 seconds. Sex toys help to stimulate and awaken you to the pleasant sensations of particular erogenous zones. The male and female G-spot can both be reached by using a G-spot penetrating sex toy.
- Nothing says I love you quite like oral sex! Add an edible lubricant to a male masturbation sleeve followed by your nice warm tongue and send him into pleasure heaven.
- Skype sex is the new phone sex! Skype-sexing or FaceTiming while using your vibrator raises the kink in long distance loving to a whole new level.
- Blindfolds and surprises! Blindfold your lover and use a seduction feather tickler to follow down their spine and send them into satisfaction overdrive.
- Yes, a paddle can be used as a sex toy with delightful punishment! Tap into your inner dominatrix! Wear some leather and go to town.
- Dealing with conflicting libidos? If your lover doesn’t last as long as you would like them to a sex toy can help finish the job. Don’t leave her hanging gents. A nice clitoral stimulator will help in multiple ways.
- Ladies, having a bullet in your toy chest is like having a black dress in your closet. No matter where you go it will always make you look and feel fabulous. Simple yet powerful and effective.
- Sex toys can help prevent STD’s. Using your dildo, sleeve, or clitoral massager before you go out can ease some built up sexual tension. The goal here is to help prevent unnecessary one-night stands.
- Want to try anal play, but are too scared? Using anal beads or butt plugs can help introduce you to a pleasurable erogenous zone. You can create your own beginners guide to anal with these two toys.
- Using a lubricant with your toys will also help turn them into an adult Slip ‘N Slide. Splash!
- Sex toys help you create a fantasy world where you and your lover get lost in an oasis of climatic memories. Bring a toy or two on vacation. Add some adventure and fantasy to your repertoire!
- In a dating and sex drought? Your sex toy will always be a loyal companion. It’s not going anywhere unless you run out of batteries. It’s always one orgasm away!
- Using a sex toy can help assist you in the wonderful world of self-pleasure. Finding out what you like and what turns you on is extremely important in being a phenomenal lover. Using a sex toy will help you find your specific sweet spots.
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