Part of being a nice guy who finishes last with women means that you’re afraid to offend a girl or make a mistake with her, especially in the bedroom. Everything just has to be perfect. So what happens instead? Nothing happens. Or if you’re “lucky”, then you get a few off-putting chances to make things happen with a girl, and then it flies so flat that she seeks her needs to be met elsewhere.
To boot, it’s even happened to me. And not even that long ago for that matter, either. Winter of 2013 I lost a gorgeous woman to not being aggressive enough in the bedroom. Now that I’m more aggressive, I have girls leaving their boyfriends for me. You don’t want to be that guy, do you? Of course, not. So listen up, because today I’ve got a special treat for you.
10 Reasons Nice Guys Should Be More Aggressive in the Bedroom
Women love the idea (and feeling) of being picked up and kissed, touched, and groped against a wall. Especially before moving the action to the bed, couch, or floor. You could even just pick her up right there and go at it while standing, and taking complete control over her. If any woman is reading this right now, let’s just say she’s excited at the idea of a guy who would do her such justice. And a nice guy who will call her back? Game over.
Women enjoy it when a man wraps his hands in her hair and pulls her head back. Especially when you’re entering her from behind. After pulling her hair, make use of the time to slow down, kiss her, and play with her breasts.