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The Beginners Guide to Light Bondage

beginners guide to light bondage

So you have a fantasy, but you’re not sure how to make it happen.  First and foremost, sharing a fantasy with your partner should always be positive. Couples with an open communication who regularly engage in fantasy indulgence can have a highly pleasurable experience, not to mention a highly trusting relationship. Trust will only deepen intimacy and make sexual fantasy all the better for it. This type of self-revealing is an amazing pleasure tool.

The Beginners Guide to Light Bondage:

Where Do I Start?

It depends on whbeginners guide to light bondageat you are looking for. Do you want to just spice things up or are you looking to get downright dirty? What you need to begin is a tool kit. This can be what you’ve imagined and actual props or tools to act out the fantasy. For the purposes of this article we will take the novice approach and talk about light bondage. You can get what you need anywhere from your local super store to a sexual novelty shop and even around the house. If you want to try some light bondage you can invest in bondage cuffs or you can grab a few of his ties or your scarves from the closet. Ties and scarves are great because they can pull double duty. They can act as blindfolds as well as actual bondage items. And sometimes ties aren’t even necessary. Simply holding your partners hands above them, limiting access to you can be a huge turn on.  Denial and teasing is amazing foreplay.

To step it up a notch, try some dirty talk. With your partner bound and blind-folded, you are restricting one sense, sight, while enhancing others. His sense of hearing and touch will be amplified. Use your mouth and hands from head to toe. You can kiss, lick and talk about what you are doing, about to do and want to do to him in this vulnerable state.  Get your body involved by sweeping and rubbing it on him.  The ultimate tease while using your body is to give him a taste of what he’s going to get for being patient.  This is a mini-reward meant to drive him crazy with anticipation and can be done a couple of different ways. You can hover over his mouth and let him sample for himself or if you’re comfortable touching yourself, give him a taste with your finger.  Ask him if that’s what he wants. Tell him he has to wait, all the while touching him and hinting at what’s to come. And then give him a little spank for being naughty and impatient when he tells you he wants you right now.

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Let Him Have It!

With him and hopefully you sufficiently revved up and desiring you, give him one free hand, but still limit what he can do. Let him touch your face or pull your hair while you go in for a kiss or to whisper dirty things in his ear. Maybe you could use a little spanking for being naughty too. (Drop a hint for that one if he’s never spanked you before).  Now you can remove the blindfold and let him feel himself inside you slowly and deliberately. Increase the hotness with reverse cowgirl. Tell him to bend his knees, creating a platform for you to slide up and down, again slowly giving him what he wants. Although he can see at this point, he still cannot place both hands on you. Increase your speed, while teasing with how you can’t wait until he can fully touch you and take you. When he is begging and throbbing for you, release the beast. Untie his last restriction and prepare to be handled. Submit to his manliness because you’re about to be taken.