The SW Experts | Five Tips for Your First Time with a Strap-on Dildo
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Whether you are a lesbian looking for a guide to strap-ons or you and your male partner want to give it a go, there is nothing to be afraid of. Before your first time, it is good to know what to expect and what things you might need. Following this guide will allow you and your partner to have a lot of fun together.

Finding the Perfect Dildo

When you are looking for a strap-on dildo, you need to make sure that you are getting one that is going to fulfil both yours and your partner’s sexual needs and desires. There are many dildos out there, but these Strap ons by Wet For Her are some of the best on the market. With a variety of different strap-on dildos including a double dildo, you and your partner are going to have a lot of fun. Wet For Her also sell a range of harnesses include women’s lingerie and boxers that allow the pleasure to become sexy and hands-free.

Familiarize Yourself with Your Toy

Before going straight in with your new purchase, it is good to have a feel of it and to see how well it fits. You should check how tight your harness is and how good you are at controlling your new toy. It needs to be tight enough that you have good control but not so tight that it begins to cut off circulation and you’re forced to stop suddenly.

Don’t Skip the Lube

Even if you think that you do not normally need lube, it is recommended with a dildo to use some lube. This reduces any friction that is caused and ensures that both of you have a good time. As you can’t actually feel the dildo, you have no idea how easy it is sliding in and therefore lube is a must to avoid any accidental injuries. A double ended dildo certainly needs lube and silicone based lubricants are best recommended for anal sex.

Communication is Key

If this is a new experience for the both of you, make it a good one. It is best to ask how they might like it first, rather than going in all guns blazing, so to speak. Start off slow and try different angles. Ask what your partner likes best and slowly work your way up to going faster. You know your partner better than anyone, so you know when they are enjoying something and when they are not. Also, don’t forget to try different positions.

Experiment

Strap-on dildos are a great way to spice up your sex life and experiment. Whether you try anal too, or participate in oral sex with your new dildo (watching this can be extremely hot), your strap-on is there to enjoy. Remember if you swap holes you need to switch condoms or clean your strap-on dildo.

There is no definitive guide to using your new strap-on dildo. Find one that works for you and your partner, use lube and experiment. You’re sure to have lots of fun.