Do you want to give your wife or girlfriend the best massage? A sensual Montreal massage is a very popular option for people who want relief from stress, anxiety and pain. But for a lot of couples, it’s also a good way to boost intimacy and romance.
If you want to give your partner a massage yourself know that touching your woman the right way says a lot about you and how you feel. Not only will she feel relaxed with a good massage, but it will also perhaps set the mood for something more.
In this article you’ll learn how to give your partner the best massage she’s ever had.
Giving a sensual massage should be set in a private and quiet place. If you have kids, then schedule it when they’re in school or at their friends’ place. Make sure your phone is off the hook; turn off your cellphones and everything else that can serve as a distraction. Play soothing music and dim the lights. You can even just switch off the lights completely and light a few scented candles to set the mood.
You’ll also need a sheet to cover your “work area” and then another one to cover your partner’s body especially if you’re planning to do this when the weather’s a bit chilly.
Learn How to Do a Massage
If you’ve ever had a massage in a spa before, then you know that there are several massage techniques – Swedish, Shiatsu, etc. Each of these has different goals but you don’t really need to know everything – you just need to focus on giving your partner a good massage. Your goal should be to help your partner relax.
A few pointers to keep in mind:
Massage the muscle – not the bone or skin.
Use an even and firm pressure, not hard or deep.
Work on large muscle groups.
Use oil or any lubricant.
Know when to stop.
Find the right pressure
You want to be able to massage your partner in such a way that the effect is not superficial. But you also don’t want to do it too deeply that your strokes will begin to hurt because you’re already pressing hard on the bone.
Pressure that is too light and uneven can be very uncomfortable so be sure to be consistent all throughout your massage. You can ask your partner for feedback. Some people want hard or deep pressure while others prefer lighter strokes.
Working on larger muscle groups like the legs, shoulders, back and neck makes you more efficient in massaging her body while at the same time preventing any soreness or damage to the muscles.
Finally, don’t forget to use oil. Lubricants are necessary for skin-to-skin contact/massage, to protect it from friction and irritation. You can use Vaseline or oils that have the scent she likes.
Once you’re done massaging the special lady in your life, give her a warm towel and a drink (tea perhaps?) to end your session.