There might be a few reasons you can think of in your mind as to why you should be nervous to ask someone who you really like out on a date. She might laugh as she casually shakes her head “no”. He might not even know you exist. She might already have a boyfriend. The list goes on and on. Here’s the thing. There’s also a really good reason not to be nervous when asking someone out. Can you guess what it is?
The Number One Reason Not to Be Nervous When Asking Someone Out is…
That you need to practice so that when you do meet someone great, you know how to get them to say “yes”. So the girl you’ve had your eye on who you keep running into at your favorite lunch place might already be in a relationship, or the guy you’ve been crushing on at the gym might not even be straight. What you need to remember is that every time you make an effort and try, is one more opportunity you have to practice asking someone out. Getting comfortable flirting and being social in general, takes practice. The more you do it, the easier it will become to casually say, “can I take you out for coffee sometime?” Or “it was so nice to meet you, here’s my number; call me sometime!”
Now that you know that you need to practice, don’t waste time. Pick up the phone, go up to the cute girl in line at Starbucks, or flirt with a co-worker over lunch. Whatever chance you get, practice, practice practice so that when you do meet the one who wants to say “yes”, you’ll be on your game!