When there is an understanding that relationships start and end repeatedly in our lifetime and in the lifespan of the relationship itself, then depth of character can unfold and bonds of connection can strengthen. A marriage can last 50 years and be unhappy because there was more of a buy in to the social commitment itself than to generating a surge of life force the within the relationship as it is ever growing and morphing.
Wellness and epic levels of pleasure require us to be brave and keep going back to the negotiation table each day with the understanding that one day the other person may say no thank you or even fuck off, one day you may find you have outgrown the relationship. Scary, I know. However, if we are not brave enough to face this possibility and the type of brief suffering it may bring we will for sure end up with a great deal more suffering that will last a much longer time.
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