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Top 3 Tips for Swinger Sexting Newbies

Sexting is a form of art that gets your partner excited about you even when you’re not in the same room together. It helps if you know each other well enough, and know what gets the other person going because that ensures your sexts do the job – make sure your partner is obsessed with you and only you. Swinger sexting isn’t much different as long as you stay in the realm of your fantasy. Below we explain the top 3 tips you should follow if you want a sexting session out of this world.

#1: Set the Mood

People with plenty of experience in sexting can literally send nasty messages to their partners as they cook dinner, change dirty diapers or fill up their gas tank. On the other hand, if you don’t have much sexting experience or if swinging is new to you, it would be a good idea to set the mood first and sext later. For instance, giving someone the dirty details of your latest fantasy is much easier at 2 am on a Saturday when you’re a little tipsy after a night of drinking and partying than on a Monday morning right before your annual performance review. Figure out a time and a place that best suits your sexting habits, and send your swinger partner your naughty thoughts when you’re in the mood.

A woman texting on a phone#2: Pick an Easy Fantasy

Either pick an easy fantasy that you want to share or pick the one that is so frequent you literally know it by heart and wouldn’t have any trouble finding the right words to express yourself. The worst thing you could do is get your partner hot and steamy and then not deliver because you don’t know exactly how to put into words what’s on your mind. Keep it simple and keep it hot. Sexting doesn’t have to be extreme or rude, mind you, and if you don’t like using swear words just don’t. Find the words or phrases that get you hot and share them with your partner. If you’re not sure about the best way to articulate a thought, look it up online as there are plenty of examples. As you can see, sexting for newbies requires at least some kind of preparation, and whatever you do just don’t rush it.

#3: Sexting isn’t Cute

There is a time to be cute, and then there is a time to be naughty. The first rule of sexting anyone – those two don’t go together! This means you should forget cutesy emojis you usually put in your texts to convey your emotions. Hearts have no business being in your sexts, and neither do pandas, umbrellas or smiley faces. There are two things you risk happening if you don’t follow this rule. The first one is you may remind your partner of his or her 12-year-old niece, and the second is you’d fail to excite them and get them interested in your sexts. Nobody wants either of those so just fight your habit to stick an emoji to every text you send, and you should do just fine.