If you want to meet local couples, we’ve got just the kind of advice you need. Below, we discuss what you need to do to ensure you and your partner find swingers in your area who are into the same things you are. Before you know it, you’ll be on a date with someone who is dying to rock your world in all the right ways, and show you and your partner why swinging takes your sex life to a whole new level.
#1: Maintain an Online Dating Profile
The first thing when it comes to maintaining a strong online presence that is bound to bring you dates is having a nice profile on a swingers dating site. In the sea of online dating sites and apps, it’s easy to get lost and lose track of what you want to find. That’s why it’s best to sign up to a swingers site that has plenty of users living in your area or at least within a 100-mile radius from your home. In addition, you should have a profile on a mainstream site that caters to the general population, but you should specify exactly what you’re looking for. This way you’re not putting all of your eggs in one basket, and are ‘canvasing’ your town for any swingers interested in meeting a couple just like you.
In addition to having a killer dating profile, you absolutely need to maintain a strong social media pages because people who check out your profile will want to see your Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. They want to see what you have in common, where your interests lie or what you like to do in your spare time. Even when it comes to meeting couples for swinging only, there still has to be strong chemistry based on mutual interests and lifestyles. You need to showcase your lifestyle while still retaining a sense of mystery so when someone becomes interested in you based on your online dating profile, your Instagram just seals the deal.
#3: Go out to Swingers Clubs
Going out to a swingers club for the first time is as much of a shock as going to a BDSM club, but that doesn’t mean you should skip this step in meeting couples who live nearby. This isn’t like going out to a bar and trying to pick up someone because you don’t know who’s into swinging among the general population and who isn’t. At a swingers club, rest assured everyone is into swinging or at least they’re strongly interested in it, and the only difference among all those people you see partying is their level of experience and their fetishes. It’s perfectly OK to be a newbie and not know anything because the swingers community lets everyone in as long as they play by the rules. In other words, dress up and hit the town, expect to be hit on and see the unexpected, but at least you’ll get an idea first-hand of what it’s like to run in those circles.