The SW Experts | Using a Threesome as a Stepping Stone for Swingers over 50
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Using a Threesome as a Stepping Stone for Swingers over 50

Sexual fantasies know no boundaries or age. If you and your partner are thinking about joining a swinging community in your area, there are a few things you should know. Swingers over 50 are usually experienced and know exactly what they’re into and what doesn’t work for them. As a result, they don’t waste anyone’s time and if there is chemistry between them and another couple things move very quickly. If you’re new to this lifestyle, the very first step for you and your partner should be introducing one more person in the picture, which is what we explore today.

#1: Finding the Right Person

Rest assured it’s going to take a little time and patience for you to find someone suitable to join you in bed if you’ve never done this before. You can try the web by checking out swinging forums, chat rooms or dating sites. You can always take things a little further and go to a swinger’s club or better yet, take a swinger’s cruise or book a vacation at a swinger’s resort down South. Meet new people who’re into the same things you are, get to know them a little bit, and see if the chemistry is strong enough to invite them back to your hotel room. A rule of thumb here is to find someone with more experience than you currently have so they can show you the ropes or at least take initiative and guide you through your first threesome.

#2: Talk to Your Partner ExtensivelyA couple kissing silhouetted against the sunset

In order for any swinging session to go well, you and your partner have to be super prepared. That means talking about what you want to do and what’s off the table, figuring out a communication strategy in front of other people or person that is not going to disturb the flow of the situation, and coming up with cues to mean different things. If you start to feel left out at any point, your partner should stop what they’re doing and come to your aid no matter how many people are included in the equation. The point here is to take your sex life to another level, a better level so you shouldn’t feel disappointed or neglected by your partner no matter what’s happening. If you can read each other’s minds and figure out verbal and non-verbal cues to communicate during a session, the whole experience is going to be that much more enjoyable.

#3: Expect Jealousy or Uncomfortable Situations

There is bound to be a little jealousy or at least an uncomfortable situation or two when one of you starts to feel a little insecure. Worry not because this is all normal and doesn’t mean you should give up swinging. It means you need to work through the issues as they come up, and if you can get past them there is no reason why you shouldn’t enjoy every bit of sharing your bed with multiple people. You and your partner should absolutely come first to each other no matter who is around, and as long as the two of you have an understanding, your sex life is bound to reach new heights.